How to Initiate Sex with your Partner

How to Initiate Sex with your Partner

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, one that’s new or more casual, initiating sex with confidence can be a little scary!

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We have done some digging and found some helpful resources that we think will help you and your partner feel more comfortable talking about and initiating sex in your relationship.

Initiations .VS. Invitation.

Let’s start with Consent.

It is important to always think of sex as an invitation to Seductive Pleasure (see what we did there?).

When you are invited to explore sex with your partner this gives both of you the opportunity to comfortably engage in this pleasure together mutually and when there is no force the sex is going to be mind-blowing.

Never let it get you down that you and your partner are not ready for action at the same time, perhaps they are tired or have had a difficult day, feeling body conscious or stressed. Take the time to communicate with your partner and see where the moment leads you, even if you just end up cuddling (which is still pretty good right?).

Appreciate What Makes Each Other Unique.

At Seductive Pleasure we know and understand that everyone feels very differently about sex, how and when they want to experience pleasure.

One of the main barriers for couples is that there is an assumption that the partner shares similar turn-ons which can lead to rejections that can leave each other feeling confused or undesired.
If you are looking to initiate sex with your partner perhaps it is time to ask or explore the ways that turn your partner on so that way you can open the communication to sex with ease and without fear of being a turn-off.

The Invitation.

Now that you know how and when your partner is ready for pleasure, it will be much easier for you to invite them to enjoy sex with you.

But how?

Here are some of our recommendations for starting the conversation and getting personal with your partner:

1. Make It Personal.

Sex is never initiated because one person wants to have sex, it is initiated because both people want to feel sexy and desired by their lover equally.

So when it comes to getting in the mood be ready to explain exactly what it is your partner is doing that turns you on so you can recreate this moment, never be afraid to have these conversations and become more personal with each other. Nothing will make your partner more excited then knowing exactly what about them you find seductive.

2. Talk Dirty.

Is your partner having a stressful day? Send them a sexy message during the day and tell them what you cannot wait to do with them when they get home. Keep it personal and clear and you will spend the day distracted by something more exciting which will have stress fading away.

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